My Facebook newsfeed and I have a tenuous relationship. When it alerts me to a friend’s favorite story in today’s New York Times or lets me know they safely escaped the tsunamis in Hawaii, I like my newsfeed. But just as often, facebook tells me things I’d rather not hear…
1. I was 15 pounds heavier in college, and looked it.
There are only 429 photos of me on facebook, and thankfully very few from my early college days, but the ones that are there…well, forget “freshman 15,” more like “freshman kiloton.” Blame one too many sports-related injuries and one too many late-night frozen yogurt study breaks. To de-tag or not to de-tag?
2. 4 people I went to high school with are already married.
It’s not like getting married is any measure of success or that I’m still competitive with people I haven’t spoken to in 7 years or anything…
3. The guy I’m in love with is “now in a relationship”…with a girl who isn’t me.
I probably should have de-friended him when we decided to go our separate ways, but then I would have lost stalking privileges. Seeing this on my newsfeed made me throw up a little… and then sign-up for OkCupid.
4. Those twats whose papers I used to edit are in PhD programs and on fellowship.
When I was an MA student, I tutored a number of underclassmen in art history and edited their grad school applications. They couldn’t tell the difference between a brick and an original idea if their lives depended on it. Their status updates announced they had been accepted into prestigious PhD programs… the same programs that rejected me. Ironic, no?
5. My teenage cousin has a more active sex life than I do.
Every month, she has a new boyfriend. Every day she posts a new album of webcam photos featuring her making out with her latest beau. Maybe if I were a better older cousin, I’d try to reign her in, teach her about modesty, but more often I feel like asking her, “so, what’s your secret?”
5 thoughts on “Things Facebook Tells Me That I’d Rather Not Hear”
This was so hilarious! I love your writing style!
This was so funny to read! Especially number 5, it sounds like someone I know.
haha Kat, there are literally 7 people (including me) in my high school class who aren’t married. Granted I’m from Texas and graduated with only 43 people, but still! Four isn’t too bad 🙂
Book marked, I love your site! 🙂
Yes, but on the bright side, there are photos of the girls in high school who were always so mean to me, and it’s nice to see that they were fat in college too…. and some of them stayed that way. 🙂 (terrible, I know, but I was a total geek in high school and they were not kind to me).